I was looking forward to writing a review on Destined. I was sure it would be another 10/10 drama for me, another series I would tuck into my top drawer, another show I would gush over and tell all my friends about (just kidding, none of my friends watch Asian dramas which is why I created this blog). And this was very much the case… for about 20 episodes.

And then… it just kept going. And as it kept going, all of the viewing pleasure was drained away by a plot I was not interested in and new characters that felt unnecessary.

You know how there are great shows? Stand alone shows? Or “limited series” as they are calling them now on Netflix. Shows that have an overarching plotline and complete their storylines in one season. Sometimes they try to make more seasons of these shows. Just… drift along on the success of the first season, throw a haphazard plot together, include the characters everyone loved, and hope for the best. The same kind of thing happens when studios don’t let a show die. On season 8 or whatever, you are having a hard time remembering why you used to love this show (The 100, anyone?). Destined gave me a similar viewing experience, in that by the time I finished it I struggled to remember why I loved it so much in the beginning.

It’s a real tragedy, honestly. Though the political factions and wars and whatnot were mentioned in the beginning and were, in fact, the initial catalyst for the leading couple to get married – these aspects were never front and center in the foundational episodes. Instead, we were treated to a very enjoyable romantic comedy.

Destined is about a scrappy Cinderalla-type character who is married off to an irresponsible spoiled Prince-type character. They both can’t stand each other but due to a series of unfortunate events (or destiny), their fates are tied.

For the first ten episodes you will be totally in love with these two. The story line is fresh and satisfying, the obstacles they must overcome were each given the attention they deserve. The actors embody the shyness, the sweetness, the disbelief and wonder of first love. Watching these two young people fall for each other slowly and naturally was heaven.

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I was enchanted, I tell you! Their cute little smiles and teamwork won me over completely.

The male lead may be one of my all time favorite characters – he was so adorable and fun to watch. Bai Jingting playing Gu Jiusi was casting perfection – he was born to play this role. 100 percent puppy energy.

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Jiusi is ditzy and rambunctious and loyal and impulsive and no man has ever ADORED his wife more than this guy.

Song Yi played his serious, task-oriented, wife Li Yuru… chef’s kiss. It’s so nice to see a nerdy girl shine like this. Her practicality and ambition (and his family’s money) were the pillars that held up their relationship. I couldn’t help but respect the girl. The actress also managed to make this character still seem young – appropriately so for the character’s age – so even though Yuru was determined and proud there was always some doubt and insecurity in her eyes. My babies! I loved them so much.

They were a ying-yang couple that worked. He made her more playful, she made him more serious. It’s a simple opposites attract storyline and I adored it.

The cinematography is breathtaking and I especially drooled over all the interiors in this show. (That beauty shop, am I right?) There is a harmonious balance of outdoor and indoor shots, a variety of locations, and plenty of movement so you never feel confined in one space. Though I am sure CGI is used, it never felt obvious.

Destined delivered a big cast of memorable servants and socialites and guards and politicians and family members and friends. Liu Xue Yi makes a fabulous villain, by the way… I’d like to see him play more elegant, devious characters in the future.

After the first quarter of the show the politics come in and there are major upheavals and big changes. Even that was okay, as it added serious dramatic tension and tested the bond of our lovers.

There were so many fresh ideas, liberal ideals, role reversals, and genuine growth in this show. Some of the dialogue will make you swoon, but you’ll also be impressed by the casual conversations between characters too. There were lessons to be learned with a focus on family harmony and societal unification. Learning to work together, to be better people, to forgive and move forward. It was positive and empowering and engrossing television.

This show was so good!!!

Until it wasn’t.

I noticed it right at the halfway mark, episode 20. Cause I felt satisfied, like the show should be over… so… wait… how many more episodes are there???

It just never stopped. It just kept going… and going… and going. My god. New characters came in that were cool but also never quite felt developed. I certainly was not at all interested in the lines of succession for the throne or empire or whatever. We got less and less scenes of our couple. My attention waxed and waned and then just went to run errands. I didn’t fast forward any eps, but I honestly wish I had cause… geesh. What a drag. Twenty long episodes of it, too.

I’ve heard that the webnovel is a vast improvement for the second half of this story, and I mean… surely. Isn’t the book usually better? Anyways, I’ll wait until there is an English translation available in print cause I struggle to read books online – but for those interested go find “Chang Feng Du” (长风渡) by Mo Shu Bai (墨书白).

For those of you who haven’t seen this show yet, do yourselves a favor and stop watching once the lead couple consummate their relationship (ep 27-28). I’m serious. Consider that the last episode. Sure, there are some elements of the plot that haven’t been closed out – but you know they’re gonna be tied up eventually, right? Just trust me on this one.

If you turn it off and walk away, you will be a happier person with nothing but warm fuzzies for our couple and an overall good impression of this show. If you keep watching… it’s highly unlikely that your overall satisfaction rating will remain that high. I mean, I have read a few reviews from people who loved the whole thing but there aren’t many…

Destined – Overall Rating: 8/10 (First half: 10/10 – Second Half: uggggggh/10)